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[sunmon]

i am withholding a number of things from a STRANGER who is accusing me of providing inadequately for the people that i care about, yes.

[lascelles]

You were happy to share at first.

But I don't blame you. I've also felt ashamed of the mistakes I've made.

[sunmon]

you're so out of line right now

[lascelles]

I'm hardly the only one.

[sunmon]

telling me how to be a dominant won't make your submissive stay with you.

[lascelles]

Then please educate me if you happen to know better!

[sunmon]

you can't

[ it hits her at once. that's the fear. that's the angst. she is realizing that she has given them both so much reason to leave and nothing can force them to stay, no matter how much power she has here. ]

you can't make them.

[lascelles]

So the only way is to make him want to stay, which is what I've been doing from the start.

Perhaps you're the one who should be taking advice from me.

[sunmon]

or maybe you should find someone who actually wants to stay with you without being convinced

[lascelles]

He wants to stay with me and I want no one else, I only have to make sure of it.