It's not, and I do have a good idea what you like. It's just... there's a spectrum in there, and I need to find tune it to you.

[Ianthe knew both Alina and Gilia were submissive in bed, but they were very different kinds. Gilia was a people-pleaser that liked being used whereas Alina was more of a pillow queen that wanted worship. Maybe. It was hard to read, especially when the woman herself didn't seem to know.]

We're adults. We're fucking. We need to be able to talk about this. It's always okay to tell me no or stop. I think you know that but I needed to say it.

And if you want something or just want to tear my clothes off, go for it. I'll take the reigns, always, if you hand them to me.